Sunday, January 24, 2016

Baby's First Snow!

Snowpocalypse 2016 was certainly interesting for us!

It all started Thursday night - everything was cancelled/closed for Friday, including our daycare and work. Dargan did not understand the concept of "no work" or "sleeping in" so we were up at 5:30am per usual.





We made plans to hunker down at home, get a bit of work done, and possibly play in the snow. Most of what came down was ice - about an inch total.



Things got really interesting at about 10:30am on Friday when our power flickered and then went out! Yikes! Thankfully our fireplace is gas and can be lit with battery power, so we got that going right away. The house stayed comfortable throughout the day, and we set up camp in the living room in front of the fire.



Pretty much spent the day playing and napping (yes, all of us!).




In the evening, we had dinner with the neighbors (their gas stove was able to light without electricity) and then had some trouble sleeping at night due to the cooler temperatures.

Side Note: We had a really good night Thursday night, he only woke up once at 1:30!

Friday morning we woke up to about 5-6" of snow that had fallen overnight, which made a beautiful white winter scene outside. Without power still, we didn't want to venture out to play without a warm house to come back to, so we stayed in and admired the beauty from the house.




I also was worried about my milk stash - both refrigerated and frozen. Google told me that a freezer can hold its temperature for ~48 hours without power, so we were ok so far, but Duke Energy estimated our power wouldn't be back until 3pm on Sunday (about 53 hours from first outage). The refrigerator was rapidly warming to room temperature by this point, so we packed everything into a cooler and set it outside on the back porch. Turned out to be a good opportunity to thoroughly clean the fridge!



Then, miraculously at 11am the heat hummed and all the lights came on! HOOORAY!!! We took the next opportunity to go out in the snow for a few minutes. Dargan was largely unimpressed.





In other news, Dargan is getting the hang of feeding himself and mastering the pincer grab for smaller foods (Cheerios, puffs, Goldfish crackers).



He's supposed to be 100% on "table foods" now, so we're trying to give him bits of whatever we're eating (within reason). He loves banana slices and yogurt, but everything else is pretty hit-or-miss. He'll eat a bit of most things and then make faces when we try to give him more. They're feeding him table foods at daycare, too, so it's always interesting to get the report of all the things he tried during the day. Interesting adventure for sure!

Other Milestones:

Still just sitting, no crawling yet here. He can stand ok if we set him up, but he isn't pulling himself up at all. He still hates tummy time after a few minutes, and we have yet to witness any rolling over. We know he can, but have just never seen it happen (only the end result a couple of times).

Napping is another big challenge, but we've made great progress. He'll usually take two 1-2hr naps (~9am and ~noonish) and then maybe a third shorter nap late afternoon. He will still usually nurse to sleep for naps, but that's really just because of how the timing works out more than anything else.

Sleep at night is getting better. He's still good at putting himself to bed - we put him in the crib awake and he'll usually only fuss <5 mins, if any, and then will play with his hands for awhile before drifting off. Night wake-ups are still all over the map, but I think we're getting better.

Tuesday, January 19, 2016

8 months old

It's been a while - we've not been well at the Trenor household!

It all started last weekend when D had a bit of a cough, but we didn't think much of it. Then Monday we got the call from daycare that he had a fever and was vomiting, so we picked him up and took him in to the pediatrician's to get checked out.



Dargan was in OK spirits and enjoyed looking at himself in the mirror, but the doc could tell pretty quickly that he had a case of RSV (Respiratory syncytial virus). She said his lungs sounded good so we didn't need breathing treatments, but did tell us we were in for a rough few days ahead since the virus tends to get worse on days 4 & 5 before starting to get better.

She was right! D had an awful fever, coughing, and more vomiting over the next couple of days. I took him back in to the pedi's on Wednesday because he was breathing really fast and shallow. Thankfully it wasn't anything more than his reaction to the fever, so once we had that controlled, he was able to calm down. Unfortunately we also discovered he'd developed an ear infection, so we got a skript for antibiotics to take care of that.

Ring sling helps get stuff done with clingy sick baby 
By Wednesday evening he seemed to be feeling much better, and acting more like himself!

New favorite: playing with utensils on the kitchen counter while we do dishes after dinner.
Over the weekend he pretty much was his old self. Unfortunately, now I'm sick - likely with whatever RSV turns into for adults (seems like a cold / sinus infection). BLEH.

Dargan joined me at part of chorus rehearsal over the weekend - even got to do some choreography in the front row! Thank goodness for wraps. :)

Frost helped us out a lot!
The one bad thing about the sickness is that it has somewhat derailed the good progress we'd made on sleeping. He still goes to bed ok, but we're back to waking up every 2-3 hours through the night. I'd relaxed on the sleep training while he was sick, but I think it's time to get back to it.

Napping has been improving, though... pack 'n' play, carseat, and crib - he's getting better and will usually nap for about an hour at a time.




We went to a friend's house on Sunday afternoon for an oyster roast, and Dargan was of course a very happy guest! He takes after his dad...

"See this bottle? MY bottle."

Monday was a day off from work for MLK day, so Dargan and I got to spend some quality time together after I'd been out most of the weekend for chorus. We started the day at 5:30am (Dargan's favorite!) and just generally enjoyed relaxing and playing around the house.




Also finally got his 8 month photos - only about a week late.





Saturday, January 9, 2016

Dinner and babywearing

The rest of this week actually went pretty well with regards to sleep. He's gotten into a good pattern of going to sleep on his own around 7:30, waking up for a snack around 3/4am, then will sleep until it's time to get up for the day (5:30/6am). One night after his 3am snack, I had to change his diaper and was convinced it was going to keep him awake... he did wake up, but I put him in the crib and he went right back to sleep. Miraculous!

Last night was really amazing... we had reservations at Restaurant 17 (it's Restaurant Week in Greenville), so we picked D up from daycare and headed there directly. D has been really fussy in the evenings lately, so we were a little concerned how we'd get through the meal. We were amazed that Dargan actually sat quite happily in his high chair, eating puffs and various bits of food we poked at him, and eventually fell asleep in Scott's lap while we ate our dessert course!



Halleluia!

Last night I also had a visiting wrap arrive - Pavo Frost CA. I was so excited because it got here in time to take it to the local babywearing meetup and learn how to wrap with it! We had our first ups on a trip to Publix. :)



Other cuteness from the week:
Penguin butt, dino jammies, and helping with the dishes.




Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Sleep Training - Week One

Yes, it has come to this. After more than 7 months with about a dozen total nights of decent sleep, and still having to nurse him to sleep every night (sometimes multiple times a night), we'd all reached our breaking point.

I was having difficulty coming around to the idea, but after reading a post on the Precious Little Sleep blog about sleep training, I decided it was time. We made sure D was recovered enough from his surgery and on Wednesday night, it was go time.

From the blog, we determined there were 3 separate issues to solve:
1) falling asleep at bedtime (without nursing)
2) not eating at night (night weaning)
3) better napping

These had to be tackled one at a time, in the above order.

To get Dargan falling asleep on his own, I had to get him to dissociate nursing with being put to bed, so we had to rearrange bedtime routine. First nursing, then warm washcloth (or bath if it's a bath night), change into PJs, read some stories, read the bedtime prayer banner, then lay him in the crib, say goodnight, and leave the room.

Wednesday night, he cried for one hour exactly, fell asleep for an hour, cried for another hour, slept for 45 mins, cried for about 15 mins, then slept until 4am. Since night weaning is a separate issue, I fed him at 4am and he slept til 6. This night was HARD.

Night two (Thursday): put him in the crib at 8:20, cried 30 mins, slept until 2:30. Fed him then and again at 5. Up for the day at 6.

Night three (Friday): in the crib just after 7, cried just under 30 mins, up at 1 and 4. Up for the day at 6.

Night four (Saturday): in the crib around 7:30, cried 20 minutes. Up at 1:30 and 4. Slept til 7! He didn't go back to bed as easily after his night wakings, so I put him in his crib awake and the first time he cried less than a minute before falling asleep.

Night five (Sunday): in crib at 7:55, cried 5 (!!!) Minutes. Up at 12 but rocked to sleep by Scott. Up at 2, nursed back to sleep. Up at 4, changed diaper, let him cry...cried for an hour then fell asleep. Had to wake at 6 for daycare.

Night six (Monday): Scott got to do bedtime solo while I was at rehearsal. He fed him a bottle and got him in the crib about 8, less than a minute of fussing before sleep. Woke up at 3:45 for a snack, then slept til 5:30.

Night seven (Tuesday): I'd pumped late in the day at work, so after D nursed in the evening we fed him an extra couple if ounces from a bottle. Put him in the crib at 8ish, he let out one fuss as I left the room, then rolled over and was out! Unfortunately the rest of the night was AWFUL. He woke up crying at 11:30 so we tried letting him cry to go back to sleep. I gave in after an hour, rocked him for half an hour, still not sleeping so I nursed him at 1. He finally feel asleep, got him back in the crib. Cried at 3:30, Scott rocked him back to sleep. Cried again at 4:30, I changed him bc here had a big poo (WHY with the 4am pooping always???), then ended up sleeping in the chair holding him until morning because he wouldn't sleep otherwise. Ugh. Hoping it was just a fluke!


Conclusion/Summary:

After one week we have essentially completed Step 1 - he falls asleep on his own pretty well! Next step is to maintain this and work on staying asleep, especially without nursing. Overall I'm really proud of D for the way he can put himself to bed now. Hoping he keeps it up and we can continue to make progress!

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Happy New Year!

Dargan has made a 100%  recovery from his surgery - big relief for everyone! I think he barely knows anything even happened, which is just as well.

Gee, mom, what's the big deal?
I'm a happy guy!
New skill: holding two toys and whacking them together.

Scott and I traded off vacation days / working from home days so that we could each get work done while D was out of daycare. It worked out pretty well! The weather was beautiful all of last week, so we were also able to get out a bit and even took D for a bike ride.

Kisses from Shiner
Petting Leo
As you can see above, D is also fascinated by all of the pets! Thankfully they like him, too. :)

On New Year's Eve, we went to Vim's party early to watch some football and made it home by about 8pm so that we didn't mess with D's bedtime too much. 

Bun bun!

Fire crackers = also appropriate for NYE
Got my fancy tux bib on!
Partied out.
We've been working on getting better naps during the day, but it's still pretty much a crap-shoot. Sometimes he refuses to nap, sometimes he's out for hours. No idea! We've also started sleep training, which I'll post in another entry.

Napping!
Not napping!
'Sup ladies. I hear chicks dig scars.
Over the weekend, we went to Asheville with our neighbors to check out some new beer places (surprise). 

At Pour Taproom
Southern Appalachian Brewing Company (Dargan's brewery #19)
Finally got a photo of D and I in our matching Chucks!
Penguin jammies!